Before trying to master others, be sure you are master of yourself first.
When you develop a Positive Mental Attitude, you immediately set yourself apart from the crowd.
You become a leader because positive thinking leads to positive action, while negative thinking leads to apathy and inaction.
When you take the initiative in any situation, others will follow simply because they like to associate with people who know where they are going.
In order to lead, you must first be willing to discipline yourself. The first rule of leadership is never to ask others to do what you are unwilling to do yourself. You can lead only by example.
Being a leader is requires you to work harder and longer than the others and providing you are the master of your destiny.
Peace&Love
Miti