Yesterday I’ve had a conversation with a customer. He is a kind of men who is always joking and those jokes are really tiring, but you fake your laugh like it was actually funny.

Later in the dining area we ended up talking a bit when I was cleaning the tables. I can’t recall the joke he made again at first, but I remember his question.

He asked me where I am from, and I replied that I am from Hungary- and then that joke I remember: “must be good then to work here in case you get ‘HUNGRY’..” – in my head I was like: “really?!“

But then he asked what I did back then and if is it my dream to work in this Cafe as a Manager?

Shared with him my biography in 10 seconds then I answered honestly, that definitely my dream isn’t to be a Cafe Manager.

After that we started to talk about ‘THAT DREAM’, he asked a few more question, which I answered.

When I said to him I’m working on my brand to be created he was surprised but in a positive way, he got excited for the fact that I am working on something huge, as he is a business man himself too. He started to ask me more about it with respect.

To see his reaction– even though he is a stranger to me and he could have been my grandpa, and his words made me to be even more driven. That what I was needed to give me an extra push. He doesn’t know me but he BELIEVES in me that I’ll make it all happen, after the smallest information I’ve shared with him about me.

Told him that I’ve changed jobs two months ago (even took a pay cut) to be able to spend every evening  home with my girls; to be a better partner and parent and create a routine in my life.  Also to be able to get some work done, educate myself  in all areas I want be in and still have some time to train.

His eyes went big and said that the looks of it I have my hands full then and he is sure that if I am staying dedicated to my dream I’ll make it come true. Those words were nice to hear and very empowering.

I am moving slow in the process because I have to work on my foundation first, which is myself; my mindset and my knowledge. That’s why I started #365project to be in THAT mindset I need to finally create what I am dreaming of for so long. (you can read about the first 31/365 of ‘review’ soon).

When I was talking to this men, I even told him that honestly I’m working on ‘something’ for like 10 years and about my brand is over a year, but I still haven’t done nothing really. The primary ‘excuse’ is not because of money (capital); the only thing that haven’t got me anywhere yet is: ME. I’m not there where I can achieve my goals. Because in order to do that I have to be in a certain mindset where I allow myself to think and feel the right way and let myself to see the right path which takes me to my destination.

I am in the ‘work in progress’ phase and I am enjoying it very much.

What this few minutes of conversation has taught me?

That, if I believe in myself that I am more then capable then others will show their beliefs in me too, if someone won’t, well, that opinion will not going to shake me.

And most importantly DO NOT DOUBT MYSELF for a second! My slow phased process is sometimes upsets me a bit as I want to BE THERE already, but every time I caught myself to think that, I stop myself and said: PATIENCE woman! This is the ultimate key of success. I have other responsibilities which requires priority and I accepted it. I accept my current situation and I accept that I can’t rush this process.

I’m growing to be ME.

-You definitely can’t rush shit like that! (Sorry for my french)

It was an awesome, motivating conversation and I feel gratitude for this men. He said he will look out for me there a year from now because he believes that I’ll make it happen.

So, let’s not disappoint him.

Peace&Love,

Miti