Listening ourselves. Hear ourselves.
How really we’re not thought or encouraged, really to hear our own voice inside.
I found myself always looking at other people to validate my thoughts. Asking them “what are they think”, “is it a good idea to them”.. Always seeking their opinion.
It’s not about advice, cause they are good and nothing wrong with them. The most important thing is when you can sit with yourself, by yourself and be clear about what you want, what you need and what you think and just be good with that.
Nobody knows what you need, expect you and only you’ll know.
There are voices inside of us. Listen. Listen to them.
When they are saying ‘Yes” it is a ‘YES!’, when they say ‘No’ than it’s a ‘NO!’
TRUST IN YOURSELF!
I’ve been working on to listening to myself, getting use to listening the voices inside of Me! (still failing most of the times).
What is that instinct that pops up upon making a decision for myself? I always had a trouble with that, making decision and without hesitation. I always over thinking the situation and worry a lot about the outcome.
I’m challenging myself to go with only “go with the gut”. But also wanna be sure I am outside of my comfort zone, because I’m a firm believer that is when I’m making changes in my life.
I’m the only one who knows what I feel and what I need. I know it!
You Know It!
Let me ask you,
How many times have you known you don’t want to do something and talked yourself – or let someone to talk you- into doing it .. and for just to please others?
Or when you find out after you did something (or when you didn’t) and you’re kicking yourself for not listening to yourself in the first place?
Oh maaan, I lived that.
But after realising this, I encouraged myself to just listen to my first instinct and trust that it leads me where I need to be. Without second guess or doubt.
It’s hard, very much so, and I don’t always do it, but when I do I feel power in me and pride that get stronger every time.
I’ll close my flow of words with the best thought.
“The Voice
There is a voice inside of you
That whispers all day long,
“I feel this is right for me,
I know that this is wrong.”
No teacher, preacher, parent, friend
Or wise man can decide
What’s right for you–just listen to
The voice that speaks inside.”
―
Peace&Love
Miti